When I first met my husband, we had a bit of a communication breakdown. Here’s why. He didn’t tell me he was using Viagra. There were many times when we planned to make love “sometime this afternoon or evening”… and then something very odd would happen. If I had some things to do that day, I would go about my activities for a while
and suddenly he would say, “Oh forget about having sex, its not working out for today.” I would get very upset. Here I was thinking, if I don’t completely clear my schedule for the entire day, he tells me to forget about sex.
I was dumbfounded.
This went on even after we were married and bought a house together. I really thought he was not attracted to me, and I was very unhappy. I started thinking there was a piece missing to the puzzle. He finally started letting on a little more information.
He’d say “it’s too late”, and then I finally began to understand about the 4 hour time window during which the pill would be effective.
Trouble was, HE DIDN’T TELL ME! He hid the fact that he took the pills. What a big Misunderstanding this caused.
I can’t tell you how happy I was when I finally knew why he would continually cancel our plans to make love. Once he told me about the Viagra, I kept track of the time so if I had things to do that day, I made sure I would be free within the effective time of the pill.
And I no more thought badly of him about using ED treatment than I do about him going to the gym. The point I’m making is, tell your women that you are using an ED medication. She needs to know how many hours the medication will work so that she can make sure the 2 of you will connect at the right time.
Any women worth being with does not think you are a loser because you have ED. We all know that its a common thing especially if you are middle aged. Unless its a brand new relationship, your partner needs to know about your use of ED medication so she can plan her day accordingly and get in that time window!
